The perfect wedding soundtrack: everything you need to know

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Music is the soul of any wedding: it sets the mood, enhances the emotions, and creates unforgettable memories from the ceremony to the final dance. But how do you choose the perfect soundtrack for your big day? Are there specific songs for different moments?

Today, we're here to guide you through everything you need to know about wedding music. Ready? Let’s go!

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The ceremony: religious, civil, or symbolic?

Religious ceremony (catholic)

A traditional catholic wedding follows a structured format with specific moments where music plays a key role. Let’s take a look:

• The groom’s entrance: Some grooms prefer to enter quietly, while others enjoy a grand moment, perhaps with their mother at their side. You can choose a classic tune or something more fun: why not the Star Wars or James Bond theme? After all, it's a celebration!

• The bride’s entrance: A highlight of the day! Whether you choose the classic Wedding March by Mendelssohn or Wagner, the romantic Canon in D by Pachelbel, or something modern like A Thousand Years by Christina Perri, the music will make this moment even more special.

• Alleluia & Offertory: Traditionally sung or played as an instrumental piece, these moments require a solemn and respectful musical choice.

• The signing of the register: The religious part is over, but the celebration continues! This is the perfect opportunity for more contemporary songs like Leonard Cohen’s Hallelujah or even Beyoncé’s Ave Maria.

• The newlyweds’ exit: The moment you officially step into married life! A triumphant tune, like the Wedding March, is a classic choice, but you can also opt for a song that reflects your personality.

Remember, while some moments require sacred music, others allow for modern alternatives. Always consult your priest, as they have the final say on what is permitted.

Civil and symbolic ceremonies

Civil and symbolic ceremonies offer much more flexibility in musical choices. Want to walk down the aisle to the sound of Iron Maiden or Lady Gaga? Why not! The key is to make the ceremony truly yours.

The most common musical moments include:

• Entrance of the couple

• Ring exchange

• Signing of the register

• The exit

Symbolic ceremonies also include extra rituals, such as the handfasting, sand, or candle ceremonies. Music can add emotional depth to each of these moments, making them even more meaningful.

Reception: when to play music and what to choose

After the ceremony, it’s time to celebrate! Let’s break down the key musical moments at the reception:

• Arrival at the venue: Guests mingle, sip cocktails, and enjoy the aperitivo. Soft background music like jazz, swing, or acoustic tunes sets the perfect atmosphere.

• Dinner time: Background music continues, allowing guests to chat and enjoy their meal. But don’t forget the grand entrance: a special song for the couple’s arrival can add a touch of drama and excitement.

• Cake cutting: A romantic moment deserves an equally romantic song: choose something meaningful to you both!

• First dance: Your first dance as a married couple is a moment you’ll cherish forever. Whether it’s a classic evergreen or a modern ballad, pick a song that tells your love story.

• Party time! The formalities are over. Now it's time to hit the dance floor! Whether you have a live band or a DJ, make sure they understand your vibe and keep the energy up until the last song of the night.

And now, a special gift for you: the 5 most beautiful first dance songs

Choosing the perfect song for your first dance isn’t always easy, so we’ve put together a list of five timeless favorites to inspire you:

1. "Just the Two of Us" – Bill Withers (A soulful classic, perfect for an intimate and relaxed first dance)

2. "At Last" – Etta James (An iconic jazz and blues song, ideal for a timeless and emotional moment)

3. "Baby I'm Yours" – Arctic Monkeys (A dreamy, retro-inspired tune, perfect for indie-loving couples)

4. "Dream Lover" – Bobby Darin (A classy and upbeat swing track, great for a vintage-style first dance)

5. "Get Lucky" – Daft Punk (Modern and groovy, for couples who want to start the party in style)

   Planning your wedding music is an exciting part of the journey—so have fun with it! Whether you're exchanging vows in a grand venetian villa or dancing under the stars in the Veneto countryside, the right music will make your Italian wedding truly unforgettable.